I saw Alice in Wonderland last night with Special K in 3D, and, though we both agree that the 3D felt tacked on and in no way enhanced the look of the film (we think Disney saw how successful 3D was getting and crammed it down Burton’s throat so he did the bare minimum required to satisfy them while still maintaining his vision), it did remind me of this badassical photography project I had to share!
Bust out them red ‘n’ blues.
Breasts … in … stereoscope!*
*(Please read that in the “Pigs in Space” voice.) Anaglyph images are used to provide a stereoscopic 3D effect, when viewed with 2 color glasses (each lens a chromatically opposite color, usually red and cyan). Images are made up of two color layers, superimposed, but offset with respect to each other to produce a depth effect. (the wiki)
This project, called 3DD, is something I saved on my computer before a crash. I lost all the credits. Someone please help, because I feel awful about losing my bookmark of the artist, and my google searches are just turning up useless nonsense about Lindsay Lohan (?) and digital porn.
Hey. Nice bongos.
Usually the main subject is in the center, while the foreground and background are shifted laterally in opposite directions. The picture contains two differently filtered colored images, one for each eye. (Ibid.)
When viewed through the “color coded” “anaglyph glasses”, they reveal an integrated stereoscopic image. The visual cortex of the brain fuses this into perception of a three dimensional scene or composition. (Ibid.)
Cool, yes?!
Final thought. Dig that jar in her hand in the above shot: “Kitchen Blend” of sprinkles. As though there are rooms or situations which would call for not only sprinkles, but a different blend altogether of sprinkles. Sprinkles appropriate to the locale. “Prison Yard Blend.” “Airport Bathroom Blend.” “Shallow Grave in the Wilderness Blend.” Don’t you hate it when you are digging a shallow grave in the wilderness and you realize you accidentally brought your Kitchen Blend of sprinkles? Like, Crap, this night just went in the toilet. Dang it — I brought the wrong sprinkles. Bummer City.
Fetish model DragonLily says she likes bondage at home, but like so many girls that come through the studio she finds it easier to gain satisfaction at a shoot. She certainly gets what she came for.
Hard foot caning, pussy flogging, nipple torture. Just a few of the torments DragonLily suffers until we let her come. However when we make her cum, we don’t stop. We just don’t stop, we make her cum until she is gone. Subspace. Then we make her cum more, we make her cum over and over until it looks like she is almost unconscious, then we make her cum more.
May write it as you wish. Explain your thoughts and reasoning’s within.
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okay. These are my personal view on a kajira in complete Mastery.
Kajira.
A female submissive who has an innate need to be under the Mastery of a Man. A need to serve another person, give complete control of our selves, our lives into that persons hands. Please note this is a NEED. Something we cannot control. We can run from it, hide it, bury it inside us for as long as we wish; but at the end of the day it is inside us. A need that in order to be truly happy, we have to recognise and accept. But that isn’t enough. A kajira cannot fulfil this need without a Man, a Master.
I posted a while ago a quote from another Gorean website, which concluded with the statement that Mastery, not slavery was the ultimate gift. I believe this. A kajira is just an unfulfilled woman, a woman who is not 100% happy, fulfilled and complete without being owned. A Master does not need a kajira in order to live his life and be happy. He takes the Gorean philosophy and principles and adapts them to his life. He lives to his own personal code, his own ethics. He has honour, integrity, morals and a personal strength that can stretch out beyond himself in order to encompass others and help them in their lives, in their times of trouble. A master does not NEED a kajira to complete him.
Mastery – not slavery is a gift. It is a gift given to a woman a Master chooses, whom he sees as being able to fulfil his own personal views on what a kajira should be. A woman he believes he can mould, adapt and shape. A woman he sees as being able to compliment him and bring pleasure into his life. That woman is not needed though for him to be fulfilled; she is only a pleasant addition that brings him joy and happiness. A piece of property.
That sort of defines those roles… But not what complete Mastery is. This is where what my views are on the subject, I feel will be a little controversial, possibly harsh. But they are my views and that is what I have been told to write.
For a kajira to be in complete Mastery – complete control. That cannot happen when living apart. To live apart and be Master and kajira puts a huge internal pressure on the kajira, and I suppose in some respects the Master as well. If he gives a command, how does he know we obey? Yes, trust is there and it must always be there, but at the end of the day a kajira is obeying what she is told because she wants to, not because she is made to. When tough commands are given – or commands we don’t wish to obey, that is when the pressure starts. When miles separate a kajira from her Master there is no quick comeback. There is not person stood over you ensuring you obey, there is not Man there watching you, encouraging you, holding you when you need it afterwards. You are stuck on your own. That place where everything is dark and lonely until you are able to speak again. Even then, internet and telephones only go so far. You cannot feel their hands in your hair, their arms around you; you cannot nestle at their feet and relax.
Complete Mastery involves living as M/s 24/7/365. Even then it will take years to shed all the layers we have built up to cope in our lives without a Master. The layers out of necessity we have constructed to protect ourselves in our daily lives. Yes, you can live as kajira and hold a job, a career, nothing is there stopping you apart from a Master’s personal view and directive. But still, to be able to function outside of a home environment we need to be able to protect ourselves from abuse. You cannot do this and be kajira without knowing all the boundaries of you relationship dynamic. What is acceptable, what is not; when you can speak up, when you cannot; when you need to ask permission before acting and when you don’t need to.. a myriad of minor details that cannot be ingrained into you consciousness without being in a 24/7 situation.
To be in complete Mastery is not a quick or easy process. Someone I know refers to it as IE – Internal Enslavement. Others refer to it as consensual non-consent. Same difference to me, you consent to give up personal consent, you consent to be encouraged to have bonds of enslavement placed in your psyche. To me, complete Mastery is when I could not contemplate being without my Master, when I get to that point where I can anticipate his needs and act with only him in my mind. When everything I do is for him and him alone. When discipline becomes more of a maintenance issue to reinforce bonds rather than because rules or commands have been broken. When life apart from our Masters is heart rending. Complete Mastery is when after years of being in that dynamic your Master knows with just your carriage, expressions and sounds how you feel. When a kajira’s limits cease to exist. Hmm. I suppose I need to explain that one.
We all have limits within our lives. Pain thresholds, which alter dependant on if it is, play which is causing pain, punishment, or illness. Limits on what we find acceptable behaviour or not. Limits of what we find degrading to the point of unbearable. Limits of verbal abuse we can take before we snap. Noise levels, brightness levels.. ad infinitum. Limits do not just come in the form of play. *grins* although play can be very, very fun…. Mmmmm.
Anyone who says they have NO limits without qualifying that statement is lying. However, like rayne on subguide I do believe that it is possible to be a no-limit slave. I like her reasoning there; it echoes some of my own thoughts.
To be no-limits
1. You have to be with the right Master – the One – your Love Master
2. You must have total and unconditional trust between Master and kajira
3. I strongly believe you have to have progressed into complete Mastery
4. You need to define what no-limits is!
As rayne put quite succinctly, just because she classes herself as no limits, doesn’t mean her Master doesn’t have limits. Also, it means that her Master understands her and knows her to such a depth that he knows before she does that he is close to pushing her too far beyond a boundary. He can judge her reactions and behaviour and choose whether to alter what he is doing or not. She trusts him with her life and it is that power he holds over her.
Only a fool would value a possession that low as to damage it beyond repair.
Hence – no limits.
I seem to have digressed far off course here, but it seemed to fit as I was typing. To be in complete Mastery just now seems to me to be this golden rainbow, something of dreams, of hopes and desires. How possible it is I honestly don’t know. I hope it is possible, the need burning inside me wants it badly. All I do know for certain is that it is not my choice, it is my Master’s.
This is a picture of us after our night at the dungeon.
We had an amazing time – playing and loving for hours – and he was handsome and strong. I was a very, very proud Sir.
I loved showing him off and I loved taking him back to the hotel to celebrate in private. It’s amazing to me how two people can fit so well together – in our daily lives, in the dungeon, in bed.
He’s a gorgeous, sexy man and My beautiful champion and I feel so lucky, every day, to be his lover, his partner, his Sir.
To kick off this blog let me tell you a bit about myself and why I have started this project. I am twenty, I have just recently started diving into the actual world of D/s BDSM, and starting my journey to become a photographer. A lot of things are changing for me just like they do for everyone else. The main thing I have come to learn is I’m not everyone else. A lot of what I read and researched when I first started entering this lifestyle, it just scared the crap out of me, and made me think, “Really? That’s not me! Maybe I’m not submissive.” A lot of what was there was not to my liking, and most of it seemed unrealistic to me. Not to say that there is anything wrong with what is out there or how others perceive it, by god if that is what makes you happy then by all means go for it, but it wasn’t relatable to me, or something that I can connect with besides maybe in a long lost fantasy. So at this point I figure I may as well create it myself, and maybe I can be a source of information for someone who has felt the same way I have. Although I don’t expect to be a match for everyone, just like the things I have read aren’t all a match for me.
So anyway here I am about two maybe three years later from my first initial jump into looking around the lifestyle. Probably two years after deciding to start meeting people, and Now about a year into my first D/s relationship with a few additions to it that I would have never thought I would be okay with, although now I find that I embrace these things, and they are a part of what makes me happy. I am slowly but surely making my way into learning what the lifestyle has to offer and what this all means to me, what suits me and what doesn’t not any other person besides my Dom and I, and what works within our dynamic.
Last night I did a presentation at Dragons Gate Studios in Orange County for a group of adventurous entrepreneurs on multiple orgasms with BDSM.
We started with cocktails, oysters and other delicacies to get everyone in the mood and ended with more cocktails and chocolate.
Thank you to everyone who participated in the interactive exercises including my assistant Shelly who allowed a stranger to spank her with a paddle. It’s all part of the job! Did I mention that I love my job especially when I can teach a group in a fun setting?
Being a Sexologist seeing clients in my private practice is very satisfying, lecturing all over the world is the cherry on top, mentoring students at my Loveology University is the ultimate high for me.
I can’t think of anything else that I would rather do, even if I won the lottery.
