To kick off this blog let me tell you a bit about myself and why I have started this project. I am twenty, I have just recently started diving into the actual world of D/s BDSM, and starting my journey to become a photographer. A lot of things are changing for me just like they do for everyone else. The main thing I have come to learn is I’m not everyone else. A lot of what I read and researched when I first started entering this lifestyle, it just scared the crap out of me, and made me think, “Really? That’s not me! Maybe I’m not submissive.” A lot of what was there was not to my liking, and most of it seemed unrealistic to me. Not to say that there is anything wrong with what is out there or how others perceive it, by god if that is what makes you happy then by all means go for it, but it wasn’t relatable to me, or something that I can connect with besides maybe in a long lost fantasy. So at this point I figure I may as well create it myself, and maybe I can be a source of information for someone who has felt the same way I have. Although I don’t expect to be a match for everyone, just like the things I have read aren’t all a match for me.
So anyway here I am about two maybe three years later from my first initial jump into looking around the lifestyle. Probably two years after deciding to start meeting people, and Now about a year into my first D/s relationship with a few additions to it that I would have never thought I would be okay with, although now I find that I embrace these things, and they are a part of what makes me happy. I am slowly but surely making my way into learning what the lifestyle has to offer and what this all means to me, what suits me and what doesn’t not any other person besides my Dom and I, and what works within our dynamic.
Lil Bumble V
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